I’m kind of a judgy person. Not rude, but definitely to appropriate ears I’m not afraid to give my opinion. I have lived enough life where I have my own thoughts and when actions are made outside of those I judge. I’m not preachy; I keep my opinions to myself. If you use social media on the regular, like me, it’s easy and tempting to share your stance. That can be ok and some things warrant it but not everything. Instead even though it’s tempting you don’t need to post every thought you have.
Lately I’ve been thinking, to me, too judgy thoughts. It’s starting to feel too harsh, too bitter. Now I don’t expect to totally change this; I started by saying I’m a judgy person. But I can try to lessen the depth of these opinions and instead focus my energies on myself.
I challenge you to a similar self-check; it can be with everything not just judgement. But we need to always accept we need to evolve. We never reach a point we’re just done, perfect and never need to change.